I am no dating expert or guru, I am just an average every day guy living a regular existence who has been able to transform his dating life and have a lot of success meeting women. Over the past couple of years I have seen Myspace transform my own and many other people's social lives. Now Facebook has produced an exceptionally great opportunity for any average guy to meet amazing women that they would have never had the chance to meet previously.All of those social sites may help,but it doesn't compare to actually meeting women in person and introducing yourself and getting them to give you their number,email,or any social sites that they use.I'm going to teach you how to meet women and get them to come home with you,get them to go out with you,or even make them fall in love with you.I can even show you how to leave them a message on Facebook,Twitter,or even an online dating site.With my help I guarantee that you will meet women like crazy and look back and say "Hey I finally can get any girl I want".It doesn't matter what your age is or how good looking you are or even if you are overweight.I'm here to say put all of that off of the table right now and just think about one thing "I'm going to get a lot of women".
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You're probably thinking to yourself "Yeah right how can I get these kind of women,if you're not a model or some sort of celebrity".Well I'll tell you,it all starts with a little confidence and communication with a women that you think is good looking or not.I repeat don't think to yourself "How can I stand a chance with a girl like that,she's way out of my league".If you say that,then for sure you won't get any girl at all,and you might as well just through all of your chances under a bus if you don't go in with any confidence in saying that you can do it or get at least her number.You also probably shouldn't act crazy or weird when talking to women because they might think that you're a psycho and she will immediately walk away from you and you'll never see her again.
BECOME A BADASS WTIH WOMEN
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You're probably thinking to yourself "Yeah right how can I get these kind of women,if you're not a model or some sort of celebrity".Well I'll tell you,it all starts with a little confidence and communication with a women that you think is good looking or not.I repeat don't think to yourself "How can I stand a chance with a girl like that,she's way out of my league".If you say that,then for sure you won't get any girl at all,and you might as well just through all of your chances under a bus if you don't go in with any confidence in saying that you can do it or get at least her number.You also probably shouldn't act crazy or weird when talking to women because they might think that you're a psycho and she will immediately walk away from you and you'll never see her again.
GET OUT OF MY WAY
Men think differently than women,and that's just a fact.Whenever we see a hot girl we immediately get distracted,but guess what we can't help it.It's part of our guy code and it's embedded into our systems and we can't control it.It's just common nature for us.Women on the other hand had another set of qualities which they developed in order to increase the likelihood of their survival and that of their family. This can be best described as having great communication skills. Women depended on keeping a great relationship with their man for their own survival as losing them would mean certain death. They also had to master the art of communication with their children and families. Over thousands of years this characteristics have been hard wired into our brains so that men and women will excel at certain skills.
In a nutshell what I teach men is the communication and attraction skills they need to know to build their social network and attract more of the type of women they want to meet. The great news is it can be done very quickly even in a matter of days sometimes as your success building a strong network will often snowball into building up even more. Traditionally only the guys who women were naturally attracted to at a young age or were surrounded by women in high school developed the best communication skills and the biggest social networks.
The reason why I endorse developing skills at meeting women using social networking skills is that it is actually a whole lot easier. People who are in your social circle typically assume you are somewhat alike as like minded people usually spend their time together. If you go to a party filled with millionaires and beautiful women they are going to assume that you are a millionaire who attracts beautiful women even if you are flat broke. If you go to a party full of poor arts students then they are going to assume you are a poor arts student even if you are a millionaire. This works to your advantage because there is already some assumed rapport there because you are in the same social circle. All you need to do now is get attraction so lets talk about how to do that on Facebook.
Attract is the next thing you need to ensure you are doing. Use emotional language in your writing too appeal to a woman, get her excited to respond to her. Make sure you have a great headline to make sure she responds to your email. It's not that hard because most guys headlines are so bad, try using there name in the headline it will increase your response dramatically. I have already talked about a few of the male fitness indicators in this article so now I want to think about how you can apply them to your profile.
Negotiate is the next step, you need to negotiate talking on the phone and going on a date or to a party together. You are the one who is responsible for this part of the proceedings, you are the man you need to take the lead. Make sure you already have decided where you want to take her before you talk to her on the phone, make it casual and relaxed so it appeals to her. She is single and looking to meet someone but she does not want a guy who is all over her. You have got her interest and built some attraction so now you have to add some logic to give her a rationalization for meeting with you or getting physical with you. I am not saying you need to sell her on the idea, I am just saying you need to state the next step so it makes sense in line with what she is already thinking. Trying saying something like "hey you seem like a pretty interesting person, lets meet at this party/coffee shop I am going to be at on Friday night and see if we get along."
I have noticed ever since I started spying on other guys that my "competition" typically do two things wrong. They only write one or two lines and make it generic and the woman does not respond because the guy is a stranger and doesn't offer anything interesting about himself. Some guys make the mistake off writing way to much which telegraphs too much interest and turns the woman off. Each way can be like a cancer to your success meeting women online.
Connect is the next step after you have found a few women who are a friend of a friend then you want to contact them via the send message feature. Warning do not poke or add as a friend until after you have connected with them. There is a big difference between contacting a woman online and actually connecting with her. Does she respond to your message? When then you have made a connection.
So for example if I click on my friend John's profile click view friends then find Sophie who is rather attract, then click view her friends this is the degree of separation I am looking for. Close enough to be in touch and still have commonality yet not close enough to upset any of males in my friend circle who might be courting the attractive woman. This is important because you do not want men and women in your social circle working against you, you want them working on your side talking you up and helping you out.
Today women can provide for themselves, they can easily get a job and by their own food and resources, they are not dependent on men for survival. Today women's greatest skill is the one they most need to learn if they want to survive in the modern world. Learning how to communicate effectively is the key for men thriving and surviving in the modern world. There is no point in owning a billion dollar technology company or being the biggest, stronger guy in the gym if you can effectively communicate with a woman so that she stays around. Women do not have to wait around for men these days so communication is critical to attracting and keeping women.
